2017-05-21 – Day 11 – Life Affirming

From the high of seeing two students graduating from college on Friday to the devastating news to the loss of a friend on the same night this weekend highlights the extremes of life. 

My students and I, the students were in the class of 2017.

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The family party celebrating my brother-in-law’s graduation from college as well.

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Making sense of the world is always easier after a nice long run through the foothills.

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Where nature can show you the little things that affirm life.

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3 Things a 1st Grader Taught Me

Lessons:

  1. If you say you’re going to do something, you better do it.
  2. The power of observation from fresh perspectives.
  3. Curiosity and perseverance are important things for adults to model.

Although she was passionate about learning in kindergarten, her desire for academic pursuits (especially in school) have greatly diminished during her first grade year. Saddened, I wanted to combat this by engaging her in a conversation about performing some “experiments,” which garnered that familiar excitement I had loved to see a year ago.

After discussing some possible experiments and wanting to capitalize on her recent trip to a nature preserve, we settled on making a floral arrangement from construction paper. We evolved this idea into a hike through the preserve, where we would collect samples and build replica of a flower. Side note: We are in are in a severe drought here in California, and any flowers that did bloom, occurred two months ago. Two weeks later we got all ready, off on our sample collecting adventure.

The Wife and 1st grade sister, walking way ahead of me.
The Wife and 1st grade sister, walking way ahead of me.

Before I can continue, I have to say she was with one of her older sisters (there are 20 years between the youngest and her) all day, where the 1st grader had asked and asked several times if she knew about this adventure. I hadn’t forgotten, but I thought she would. Two weeks to a first grader is a lot of time, and a lot of things have happened between then and now. Well she didn’t forget, so when she got over to our house, I was in my room recovering from a long run in 90 degree heat. She tentatively asks if we are still going, I said yes, and for the first time she hugged me, straight up long embrace, Lesson 1 learned.

Arriving at the nature preserve, she was jumping for joy.
Arriving at the nature preserve, she was jumping for joy.

Back to the narrative, so we get ready and we’re out the door in 20 minutes. She was so giddy to be going, she kept asking if we were excited too. For the next two hours we walked around, collecting samples. During this time, I learned Lesson 2, she was so observant, she saw and heard everything through fresh ears, I realized that we can stop and look around, and with a fresh perspective familiar things look new. She made me think of this hot, dry environment as if it were some amazing, new place (which it was for her) and how exciting the mundane can be when viewed from different perspectives. For example, this is important to keep in mind as a teacher, as your students will often see the mathematics you teach from fresh and alternative perspectives, we need to embrace those perspectives and view things from their eyes.

The bags of samples, classified by "families" for later use.
The bags of samples, classified by “families” for later use.

After collecting samples, we went to dinner, then off to the dollar store for supplies. Having no idea  what to get, it was a challenge to think of all we would need, but it worked out. When we got back, we were ready to start. We were trying all kinds of fun things, but I learned she was curious. I didn’t know what we were going to do for constructing a flower with our materials,  when I learned Lesson 3. When an adult wants to learn the answer to a question, by what process does she go through to answer the question. Since she would not let me off the hook, I was given a marvelous opportunity to model how one might answer such a question, and how to continue through seemingly endless possibilities to find an answer.

All in all it was a great six hours of learning and time we’ll spent. The total cost:  my time, $8, and a lot of learning. We are extending this idea and building something better from it on Wednesday. Best part is, that spark of excitement for learning is back.

My girls and the Sierra Nevada mountains.
My girls and the Sierra Nevada mountains.